I am I total agreement.
She did nothing wrong but this shows she has wandering eyes as if she was Into you fully she would not have been sleeping with anyone else. You either move forward or move on. Mail will not be published required: You may use these HTML tags and attributes: The material on this site may not be reproduced, distributed, transmitted, cached or otherwise used, except as expressly permitted in writing by A New Mode, Inc.
She slept with someone else while we were dating. Viewing 14 posts - 1 through 14 of 14 total. March 29, at 1: March 29, at 2: March 29, at 3: March 29, at 4: March 29, at 5: April 1, at April 24, at 6: May 1, at 1: December 13, at 7: December 13, at 8: She slept with someone else while we were dating Your information: See All Recently Updated Topics. Most popular topics Topics with no replies. This is the path to ruin however it's an enlightening path so I think he will suffer in the short term but in the future he will thank you so much for this.
Follow 13 Original post by trapking Disgusting what society has now come to She has clearly cheated here even though there was no "official" sense but OP isn't giving the full story here for her to go on 4 dates means she gave him her trust and so did he. Follow 14 Original post by Twinpeaks Not neccessarily though?
Only 4 dates is very early days, many people wouldn't consider themselves to be exclusive at that point. I wouldn't say 4 dates is sufficient to determine a fully fledged relationship. I wouldn't sleep with another person after having a few dates because I probably couldn't be bothered with the effort. However if the guy I dated slept with another during the first 1 or 2 weeks we started dating, I'd rather not know because it would be a pointless cause of any upset.
Follow 15 Yeah basically a girl like this would not be seen by a male to be a long term prospect.
Just to have fun with and discard. Enjoy the good times by all means but be prepared for it to bite you on the ass later. Follow 16 Posted from TSR Mobile.
Follow 17 Tubbz Follow 20 followers 20 badges Send a private message to Tubbz. Follow 18 Let's say this goes well, and you're a few years down the line together, do you really want to be telling him the "funny story" of how when you first started dating, before you decided to be exclusive, you made a drunken mistake and slept with someone else, but it was only once I swear.
Come clean, it's out in the open.
At least then he can make the decision of whether or not he wants to carry on. Follow 19 Don't drink if you can't handle it? Clearly you aren't that into him. Follow 20 Well if you're not serious and haven't discussed being exclusive then you didn't technically cheat.
That's not to say he won't feel that you did though, personally I'd be upset if someone I was seeing casually was sleeping with other people, even if I had no right to be. Maybe it's time to have a chat about being exclusive. This forum is supported by: Here, we repeat, that do not doubt your partner without being completely sure. If their behaviour is actually very different and they suddenly go from wild-excited to turtle-excited in bed, then we suggest you look for more signs. A declining sex life might point towards declining relationship, or the fact that they are sleeping with someone else.
This one can be a little tricky.
It can be difficult for you to tell if they are getting you presents out of love or if they want to cover their guilt. Even if they are being dishonest and sleeping with someone else, they might feel the guilt at times and try to cover it up with some extra gifts out of occasion. It is one of the possibilities; do not always be doubtful. It is your task now to decide whether they are being generous out of love or if their behaviour has changed in the last couple of weeks.
If there is something you caught them with and now they want to make you believe that it was all a misunderstanding, they actually may be trying to cover it up by those gifts. So assess the recent events, change in their tone and habits and then decide. If not sure, confront them politely. Talking always helps and it may turn out that they only wanted to make you feel good by giving all those presents.
Or, it may turn out that they finally start talking and reveal to you the news. If your partner is usually not too interested in looking good, but they suddenly starting paying too much attention to their looks, maybe they are either trying to impress someone which maybe you or other than you or have already impressed someone. Self-grooming is a normal thing to do for anybody, but if they never had a problem going out with a gray shirt and blue jeans but perfectly dress up now before going out, there is some place for planting your doubt.
If not dresses then it can be anything new they start doing that they never did before, like using a deodorant or caring too much about their hair.
These are all signs for you to only be suspicious and make sure that whether they are doing it for themselves or for someone else. Facial changes or grooming below the belt can be big signs that they are sleeping with someone that is not you, because you are used to the way they are and do not demand a change. It is possible that they are doing it for you to spice up the relationship, but double-check can be helpful at times. If they adopt a new position or kiss you in a different way, be alert.
New moves can be a sign of new sex partner in their life, although it is not necessary.